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Old Testament Reading: Genesis 24
“Now Abraham was old, well advanced in years. And the LORD had blessed Abraham in all things. And Abraham said to his servant, the oldest of his household, who had charge of all that he had, ‘Put your hand under my thigh, that I may make you swear by the LORD, the God of heaven and God of the earth, that you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I dwell, but will go to my country and to my kindred, and take a wife for my son Isaac.’ The servant said to him, ‘Perhaps the woman may not be willing to follow me to this land. Must I then take your son back to the land from which you came?’ Abraham said to him, ‘See to it that you do not take my son back there. The LORD, the God of heaven, who took me from my father’s house and from the land of my kindred, and who spoke to me and swore to me, ‘To your offspring I will give this land,’ he will send his angel before you, and you shall take a wife for my son from there. But if the woman is not willing to follow you, then you will be free from this oath of mine; only you must not take my son back there.’ So the servant put his hand under the thigh of Abraham his master and swore to him concerning this matter. Then the servant took ten of his master’s camels and departed, taking all sorts of choice gifts from his master; and he arose and went to Mesopotamia to the city of Nahor. And he made the camels kneel down outside the city by the well of water at the time of evening, the time when women go out to draw water. And he said, ‘O LORD, God of my master Abraham, please grant me success today and show steadfast love to my master Abraham. Behold, I am standing by the spring of water, and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water. Let the young woman to whom I shall say, ‘Please let down your jar that I may drink,’ and who shall say, ‘Drink, and I will water your camels’—let her be the one whom you have appointed for your servant Isaac. By this I shall know that you have shown steadfast love to my master.’ Before he had finished speaking, behold, Rebekah, who was born to Bethuel the son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham’s brother, came out with her water jar on her shoulder. The young woman was very attractive in appearance, a maiden whom no man had known. She went down to the spring and filled her jar and came up. Then the servant ran to meet her and said, ‘Please give me a little water to drink from your jar.’ She said, ‘Drink, my lord.’ And she quickly let down her jar upon her hand and gave him a drink. When she had finished giving him a drink, she said, ‘I will draw water for your camels also, until they have finished drinking.’ So she quickly emptied her jar into the trough and ran again to the well to draw water, and she drew for all his camels. The man gazed at her in silence to learn whether the LORD had prospered his journey or not. When the camels had finished drinking, the man took a gold ring weighing a half shekel, and two bracelets for her arms weighing ten gold shekels, and said, ‘Please tell me whose daughter you are. Is there room in your father’s house for us to spend the night?’ She said to him, ‘I am the daughter of Bethuel the son of Milcah, whom she bore to Nahor.’ She added, ‘We have plenty of both straw and fodder, and room to spend the night.’ The man bowed his head and worshiped the LORD and said, ‘Blessed be the LORD, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken his steadfast love and his faithfulness toward my master. As for me, the LORD has led me in the way to the house of my master’s kinsmen.’ Then the young woman ran and told her mother’s household about these things. Rebekah had a brother whose name was Laban. Laban ran out toward the man, to the spring. As soon as he saw the ring and the bracelets on his sister’s arms, and heard the words of Rebekah his sister, ‘Thus the man spoke to me,’ he went to the man. And behold, he was standing by the camels at the spring. He said, ‘Come in, O blessed of the LORD. Why do you stand outside? For I have prepared the house and a place for the camels.’ So the man came to the house and unharnessed the camels, and gave straw and fodder to the camels, and there was water to wash his feet and the feet of the men who were with him. Then food was set before him to eat. But he said, ‘I will not eat until I have said what I have to say.’ He said, ‘Speak on.’ So he said, ‘I am Abraham’s servant. The LORD has greatly blessed my master, and he has become great. He has given him flocks and herds, silver and gold, male servants and female servants, camels and donkeys. And Sarah my master’s wife bore a son to my master when she was old, and to him he has given all that he has. My master made me swear, saying, ‘You shall not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, in whose land I dwell, but you shall go to my father’s house and to my clan and take a wife for my son.’ I said to my master, ‘Perhaps the woman will not follow me.’ But he said to me, ‘The LORD, before whom I have walked, will send his angel with you and prosper your way. You shall take a wife for my son from my clan and from my father’s house. Then you will be free from my oath, when you come to my clan. And if they will not give her to you, you will be free from my oath.’ I came today to the spring and said, ‘O LORD, the God of my master Abraham, if now you are prospering the way that I go, behold, I am standing by the spring of water. Let the virgin who comes out to draw water, to whom I shall say, ‘Please give me a little water from your jar to drink,’ and who will say to me, ‘Drink, and I will draw for your camels also,’ let her be the woman whom the LORD has appointed for my master’s son.’ Before I had finished speaking in my heart, behold, Rebekah came out with her water jar on her shoulder, and she went down to the spring and drew water. I said to her, ‘Please let me drink.’ She quickly let down her jar from her shoulder and said, ‘Drink, and I will give your camels drink also.’ So I drank, and she gave the camels drink also. Then I asked her, ‘Whose daughter are you?’ She said, ‘The daughter of Bethuel, Nahor’s son, whom Milcah bore to him.’ So I put the ring on her nose and the bracelets on her arms. Then I bowed my head and worshiped the LORD and blessed the LORD, the God of my master Abraham, who had led me by the right way to take the daughter of my master’s kinsman for his son. Now then, if you are going to show steadfast love and faithfulness to my master, tell me; and if not, tell me, that I may turn to the right hand or to the left.’ Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, ‘The thing has come from the LORD; we cannot speak to you bad or good. Behold, Rebekah is before you; take her and go, and let her be the wife of your master’s son, as the LORD has spoken.’ When Abraham’s servant heard their words, he bowed himself to the earth before the LORD. And the servant brought out jewelry of silver and of gold, and garments, and gave them to Rebekah. He also gave to her brother and to her mother costly ornaments. And he and the men who were with him ate and drank, and they spent the night there. When they arose in the morning, he said, ‘Send me away to my master.’ Her brother and her mother said, ‘Let the young woman remain with us a while, at least ten days; after that she may go.’ But he said to them, ‘Do not delay me, since the LORD has prospered my way. Send me away that I may go to my master.’ They said, ‘Let us call the young woman and ask her.’ And they called Rebekah and said to her, ‘Will you go with this man?’ She said, ‘I will go.’ So they sent away Rebekah their sister and her nurse, and Abraham’s servant and his men. And they blessed Rebekah and said to her, ‘Our sister, may you become thousands of ten thousands, and may your offspring possess the gate of those who hate him!’ Then Rebekah and her young women arose and rode on the camels and followed the man. Thus the servant took Rebekah and went his way. Now Isaac had returned from Beer-lahai-roi and was dwelling in the Negeb. And Isaac went out to meditate in the field toward evening. And he lifted up his eyes and saw, and behold, there were camels coming. And Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she dismounted from the camel and said to the servant, ‘Who is that man, walking in the field to meet us?’ The servant said, ‘It is my master.’ So she took her veil and covered herself. And the servant told Isaac all the things that he had done. Then Isaac brought her into the tent of Sarah his mother and took Rebekah, and she became his wife, and he loved her. So Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.” (Genesis 24, ESV)
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Introduction
The story of the marriage of Isaac and Rebekah is one of the most beloved stories in the book of Genesis. It is a very happy story. Some might even call it “romantic”. And it is not uncommon for pastors — particularly youth pastors — to interpret this story as if it’s purpose was to provide guidelines for finding spouse.
Friends, though it be true that there is something romantic about this story, its purpose is not to show us how to find a spouse. Instead, its purpose is to once again highlight the LORD’s provision and his faithfulness to fulfill the promises he made to Abraham. The LORD promised that Abraham would have many descendents. Nations and kings would come from him. Specifically, the promises would be fulfilled through Isaac, the son of promise. And now that Abraham is advanced in years he is concerned to find a wife for Isaac, not only that Isaac might be comforted by her, but also that he would bear children by her, thus fulfilling the promises of God concerning a multitude of descendents. Now, I do not deny that there are some interesting observations to make along the way that pertain to finding a godly spouse (and I will make some of those observations). But those observations are tangential to the main point, namely, the fulfillment of the promises of God made to Abraham through Isaac and his blessed wife, Rebekah.
This passage is a little difficult to preach for two reasons. One, it is long. And two, it is a bit repetitive. I have decided to preach the passage by saying a brief word about each of main characters. One, we will consider Abraham and his diligence. Two, we will consider Abraham’s servant and his obedience. Three, we will consider Laban and his greed. Four, we will consider Rebekah and her faith. And five, we will consider Isaac and his comfort.
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Abraham’s Diligence
Let us begin with Abraham and take special notice of his diligence.
Abraham, being now very advanced in years, was diligent to find a bride for his son Isaac. It should not be difficult to understand that the fulfillment of the promises of God concerning a great multitude descending from Abraham would require that Isaac be married and have children. And so Abraham was diligent to commission his faithful servant to go and find a bride for his son.
APPLICATION: Brothers and sisters, as you consider this narrative I hope you are able to recognize that trusting in the promises of God does not mean that we are sit idly by waiting for their fulfillment. It would have been irresponsible for Abraham to sit around waiting for a bride for Isaac to magically appear. Based upon the promises of God made to Abraham, Isaac would surely marry and have children — this would certainly come to pass! But do you see that it was right for Abraham to take the initiative to send his servant to find a bride for him? This was Abraham’s responsibility.
Throughout the pages of Holy Scripture we see that God is sovereign over all things, and yet human beings are responsible. These two things — God’s sovereignty and man’s responsibility — do not contradict one another. Instead they fit together hand in hand.
God is sovereign. He has decreed from eternity past all things that shall come to pass. And he also providentially rules over his creation. He will carry out his decrees. But please understand, God’s sovereignty does not do away with the free choices of human beings, nor does it remove our responsibility. Instead, what we see in the scriptures from beginning to end is that God, who is sovereign over all, will indeed bring about all of his purposes, and this he will do through the free choices of responsible creatures.
I will admit, it is mysterious to me as to how exactly God’s sovereignty and man’s responsibility fit together. But one thing I know for sure is that this is what the scriptures teach. God is sovereign over all. Nothing is outside of his control. He will surely do that which he has decreed. And yet you and I are responsible creatures who make real choices.
Perhaps no single verse demonstrates this better than Acts 2:23. There Peter is found preaching to the Jews on the day of Pentecost, saying, “Men of Israel, hear these words: Jesus of Nazareth, a man attested to you by God with mighty works and wonders and signs that God did through him in your midst, as you yourselves know— this Jesus, delivered up according to the definite plan and foreknowledge of God, you crucified and killed by the hands of lawless men.” (Acts 2:22–23, ESV). In verse 23 we learn that Christ was crucified because it was the definite plan of God, and yet at the same time Peter sets the blame at the feet of those who freely chose to crucify him. You can complain all you want concerning the mystery, but one thing you cannot do is deny that the scriptures teach it. God is sovereign over all (event the crucifixion of Christ), and yet man is a responsible creature.
Abraham knew this. When he considered the promises of God he knew for certain that Isaac would have a wife and kids someday. And yet Abraham also knew that he was responsible to act, for God brings his purposes about through the free choices of his creatures.
Remember how Abraham got into trouble earlier in his life when he convinced his wife to lie, saying only that she was his sister, and by going along with Sarah’s plan to have a child by way of Hagar? In those instances we criticized Abraham for his lack of faith. There we said that Abraham should have waited upon the LORD instead of taking matters into his own hands. But note this: Abraham failed in those instances, not because he took action, but because he acted contrary to the law of God and without faith. In those instances his activity was fleshly and faithless. But please do not misunderstand. This does not mean that we are to sit idly by waiting for God to magically fulfill his promises. The Christian life is to be characterized by activity — diligent and faithful activity. The Christian is to be active, knowing that God will accomplish his decrees through the actives of his free creatures.
Has God promised to sanctify you if you are in Christ Jesus? Indeed, he has promised to refine those who belong to to him. But notice that we are also exhorted in the scriptures pursue holiness. Hebrews 12:14 says, “Strive for… holiness without which no one will see the Lord” (Hebrews 12:14, ESV). See, therefore, that God has promised to make us holy, and yet we are responsible to strive after holiness.
Similarly, has God promised to preserve you if you are in Christ Jesus? Indeed he has! “And I am sure of this”, Paul wrote, “that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6, ESV). And yet we are also responsible to persevere. The writers to the Hebrews offers these words of warning: “Take care, brothers, lest there be in any of you an evil, unbelieving heart, leading you to fall away from the living God” (Hebrews 3:12, ESV).
God is sovereign. He will bring about his purposes. He will fulfill everyone of his promises. And yet this he will do, not in competition with, but through the free choices of his responsible creatures. Brothers and sisters, trust in God, but also take action. Pray that the Lord would provide for you and your family, but also go to work. Ask the Lord to give you victory over sin, but also choose not to sin. Rest assured that the Lord will preserve you if you are his in Christ Jesus, but never grow slack. You must persevere to the end in Christ, knowing that there is no salvation outside of him.
Abraham was diligent to find a wife for Isaac. He took action, not because he lacked faith, but because he knew that the fulfillment of God’s promises would come about through his faithful activities. Abraham walked by faith and not by sight. But here I am emphasizing that the walk of faith does involve walking.
Not only was Abraham diligent to send his servant off on this mission, he was also diligent to give him specific instructions. He made his trusted servant “swear by the LORD, the God of heaven and God of the earth, that [he] will not take a wife for [his] son from the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom [Abraham dwelt], but [would] go to [his] country and to [his] kindred, and [there] take a wife for… Isaac” (Genesis 24:3–4, ESV).
Certainly, it would have been easier to take a wife from amongst the Canaanites. I’m sure there were many eligible young ladies living in close proximity to Abraham’s clan. Not to mention that Abraham could have bettered his position in the land by making an alliance via marriage, as was the custom in his day. But Abraham insisted that a bride be taken for his son, not from amongst the Canaanites, but from amongst his own people back in Mesopotamia.
Calvin states that the reason for this is that, “he would not allow his own race to be mingled with that of the Canaanites, whom he knew to be already divinely appointed to destruction; yea, since upon their overthrow he was to be put into possession of the land…” (Commentary on the First Book of Moses Called).
The Abrahamic Covenant was a fleshly, earthly covenant. Abraham was concerned to preserve the purity of the covenant by taking a wife for his son from amongst his own people, and not the Canaanites. There is, of course, a New Covenant paralel to this. The New Covenant is not confined to a particular race of men. Indeed, all who have faith in Christ, Jew or Gentile, are partakers of the blessings of the New Covenant. Christians are therefore free to marry all kinds of people — ethnicity is no barrier to marriage — but the Christian is to marry in the Lord. Marrying someone of a different race will have no impact upon the purity of the New Covenant, for it is not fleshly and earthly, but spiritual. What matters is faith in Christ. Brothers and sisters, if you hope to marry in the future, be resolved marry in the Lord. Be sure that the person has faith — true faith — in Christ Jesus. Marriage is a blessing . But a bad marriage can make a real mess of things. Marry in the Lord.
Notice also that Abraham instated that his servant not take Isaac out of the land of promise. The servants question was a reasonable one. “The servant said to him, ‘Perhaps the woman may not be willing to follow me to this land. Must I then take your son back to the land from which you came?” (Genesis 24:5, ESV). Abrahams reply: “See to it that you do not take my son back there. The LORD, the God of heaven, who took me from my father’s house and from the land of my kindred, and who spoke to me and swore to me, ‘To your offspring I will give this land,’ he will send his angel before you, and you shall take a wife for my son from there. But if the woman is not willing to follow you, then you will be free from this oath of mine; only you must not take my son back there” (Genesis 24:6–8, ESV). This proves what I said earlier, that this entire episode is about the fulfillment of God’s promises to Abraham. Abraham was to have many descendents, and these descendents were to possess the land of the Canaanites.
Abraham’s faith is impressive here. He took action — that has already been emphasized. But he did not cut corners. He refused to take the easy rout. Sure, it would have been easier to find a wife for Isaac from amongst the Canaanites, but he was not willing to corrupt the covenant. And it would have been more reasonable to take Isaac back to the homeland to meet the potential bride, but Abraham would not risk the abandonment of the land of promise.
APPLICATION: Brothers and sisters, following Christ in this world often requires this kind of resolve. No, I won’t take the job for it will require me to work on the Lord’s Day. I’ll keep looking for another trusting that the Lord will provide and I will worship according to his word. Or, no, I will not marry this girl. She is wonderful in every way, but she she does not have faith. I will trust that the Lord will provide another. These are not easy decisions, friends. But following after Christ in this world requires this kind of resolve. The straight and narrow road is sometimes a difficult one to travel.
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His Servant’s Obedience
Secondly, I would like to say a brief word about Abraham’s servant’s obedience. This man is everything that a faithful servant should be.
Notice that this servant does not have a name. Obviously he had a name, but we are not told what it was. But that should not matter to a servant. A servant’s desire is to do the will of his master and to promote his name. May the same be true of us as we serve Christ. May our highest aim be his glory, and not our own.
Notice also how hesitant this servant was to take an oath that he did not understand or could not fulfill. He asked for clarification before placing his hand under Abraham’s thigh (we raise the right hand in our culture, or sign our name). He also obtained an exception from Abraham before swearing. Abraham released him from the obligation, saying, “But if the woman is not willing to follow you, then you will be free from this oath of mine; only you must not take my son back there” (Genesis 24:8, ESV). Oh, that we would take our oaths this seriously. Our yes should be yes, and our no should be no. This
This servant was very faithful to Abraham. He traveled a great distance. And when he arrived he would not rest or refresh himself with food and drink until he finished his masters work. May we be this devoted to our LORD and committed to his work.
Notice that this servant also shared Abraham’s faith. He believed that the LORD would give him success. He prayed to the LORD saying, “O LORD, God of my master Abraham, please grant me success today and show steadfast love to my master Abraham. Behold, I am standing by the spring of water, and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water. Let the young woman to whom I shall say, ‘Please let down your jar that I may drink,’ and who shall say, ‘Drink, and I will water your camels’—let her be the one whom you have appointed for your servant Isaac. By this I shall know that you have shown steadfast love to my master” (Genesis 24:12–14, ESV). And who the LORD gave him success, he bowed and worshipped “and said, ‘Blessed be the LORD, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken his steadfast love and his faithfulness toward my master. As for me, the LORD has led me in the way to the house of my master’s kinsmen’” (Genesis 24:27, ESV).
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Laban’s Greed
Let us now briefly consider the character of Laban, the brother of Rebekah.
Notice that he was quite impressed with the wealth of Abraham. The narrative emphasizes how he took note of the “ ring and the bracelets on his sister’s arms”. He also was found standing “by the camels at the spring” (Genesis 24:30, ESV). Put into todays terms, he was found checking out the servant’s Cadillac Escalades. Not much is said about Laban, but he is portrayed as one impressed with the wealth of Abraham, and desiring to profit from it.
APPLICATION: Friends, we must be careful to not allow the glitter of wealth to catch our eye and to captivate our affections. To be rich is not sinful. Abraham was very wealthy because the Lord chose to bless him in that way. But to love money is sinful. Listen carefully: “The love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs” (1 Timothy 6:10, ESV). Brothers and sisters, there are some who are rich who love money supremely, and there are some who are rich who love the LORD supremely. Similarly, there are some who are poor who love money supremely, and there are some who are poor who love the LORD supremely. No matter our financial position, let us be careful to never be entangled by the love of money.
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Rebekah’s Faith
Now we come to the real star of the story — Rebekah. As we consider Rebekah, we are to notice her faith.
Remember that Rebekah was mentioned for the first time back at the end of Genesis 22 in that little genealogy of Nahor, the brother of Abraham. On of the reasons for that genealogy was to set the stage for the introduction of Rebekah into the narrative.
You should know that her name sounds like the word “to bless” in the Hebrew language. You and I might miss it, but she is portrayed as one who, like Abraham, is blessed of the LORD.
Notice that she was hard working and hospitable. Abraham and Lot have already demonstrated that they were a hospitable people, concerned for the wellbeing of the sojourner. And what did Rebekah do for Abraham’s servant as he sojourned? She gave him a drink of water when he was weary. More than that, she watered all of his camels. That was a huge job! The young woman was not afraid of hard work. Her natural bent towards hospitality made her a perfect candidate as a wife for Isaac, the son of Abraham, the father of a hospitable people.
In fact, Rebekah met all of the qualifications. She was a girl of marrying age who had not joined herself to a man. She was from Abraham’s clan. She was hard working and hospitable. On top of all of this, she was of beautiful appearance. Add to this the fact that Abraham’s servant had just prayed to the LORD, saying, “Let the young woman to whom I shall say, ‘Please let down your jar that I may drink,’ and who shall say, ‘Drink, and I will water your camels’—let her be the one whom you have appointed for your servant Isaac. By this I shall know that you have shown steadfast love to my master’” (Genesis 24:14, ESV). All things considered, Rebekah seemed to be the one. It appeared that the LORD had directed the servant to her providentially.
APPLICATION: Brothers and sisters, you and I don’t know what the will of the LORD is. And by that I mean, we do not know his hidden or secret will is for the future. His future providence is mysterious to us. But in another sense we do know what the will of the LORD is. Here I am referring to God’s revealed will. Friends, we cannot get hung up on the fact that we do not know the secret will of God. Instead we must rise up day by day and obey his revealed will — his law; his word — and trust that he will providentially guide us according to his secret will. You know the song. Trust and obey, for there is no other way, to be happy in Jesus, than to trust and obey. That’s what Abraham’s servant did, and the LORD led him to the blessed Rebekah.
But one question remained. Would she be willing to go?
Notice that the choice was hers to make. She was not forced into this. After Abraham’s servant told the story of God’s provision for him, “Laban and Bethuel answered and said, ‘The thing has come from the LORD; we cannot speak to you bad or good’ (Genesis 24:50, ESV). And when it was time to leave, “They said, ‘Let us call the young woman and ask her.’ And they called Rebekah and said to her, ‘Will you go with this man?’ She said, ‘I will go’” (Genesis 24:57–58, ESV).
Take special note of this — Rebekah is the female version of Abraham. She, like him, was called to leave her home to go to a land of promise. And she, like him, exercised great faith when she decided to go. Think of how scary that must have been for her to leave her home at such a young age, and to go with a group of men that she had never met before. That required great faith. Now granted, it was not leap into the dark. She knew of her relative Abraham. Proof of his wealth had been provided to her. Nevertheless, she had great faith.
Listen to the blessing pronounced upon her and compare it to the promises of God made to Abraham and Isaac. “And they blessed Rebekah and said to her, ‘Our sister, may you become thousands of ten thousands, and may your offspring possess the gate of those who hate him!’” (Genesis 24:60, ESV).Clearly, the purpose of this story is to show that it would be through Isaac and Rebekah that the promises made to Abraham would be fulfilled.
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Isaac’s Comfort
Lastly, let us consider very briefly that Isaac was comforted by Rebekah as he mourned the death of his mother.
The most romantic portion of this story begins in verse 62. “Now Isaac had returned from Beer-lahai-roi and was dwelling in the Negeb. And Isaac went out to meditate in the field toward evening. And he lifted up his eyes and saw, and behold, there were camels coming. And Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she dismounted from the camel and said to the servant, ‘Who is that man, walking in the field to meet us?’ The servant said, ‘It is my master.’ So she took her veil and covered herself. And the servant told Isaac all the things that he had done” (Genesis 24:62–66, ESV).
Isaac was 40 years old when he married Rebekah. This we learn in 25:20. But isn’t it interesting that Isaac’s comfort is emphasized in this story that is clearly about the fulfillment of the promises made to Abraham.
APPLICATION: Friends, God is sovereign over all. He is God Almighty. He will accomplish all of his purposes. But do you see that he is also a compassionate Father. Not only was he concerned to fulfill his purposes through Isaac. He was also concerned for Isaac. And he is also concerned for you. Yes, the LORD is accomplishing things that are way bigger than you. Yes, he is concerned about big things that make the little circumstances of your life seem small by comparison. But our God is so big and awesome that he also able to be near to us and to be concerned about our little problems. He is concerned to bring comfort to his people who have been redeemed by the blood of the lamb. Put into theological terms, our God is both transcendent and immanent. He is God Most High, Creator of heaven and earth, and he is YHWH, the covenant making and keeping God, who is can ever present help in time of need.
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Conclusion
Brothers and sisters, as we move now to the conclusion, please recognize that the point of this sermon is that God was faithful to fulfill his promises. He faithful to provide a blessed bride for Isaac so that the promises made to Abraham would be fulfilled. More than that, please know that the Lord has been faithful to provide a Savior who arose, in the fulness of time, arose from the line of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob — Jesus Christ our Lord. Let us be found ever trusting in him, for apart from him there is no forgiveness of sins.
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Old Testament Reading: Genesis 23
“Sarah lived 127 years; these were the years of the life of Sarah. And Sarah died at Kiriath-arba (that is, Hebron) in the land of Canaan, and Abraham went in to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her. And Abraham rose up from before his dead and said to the Hittites, ‘I am a sojourner and foreigner among you; give me property among you for a burying place, that I may bury my dead out of my sight.’ The Hittites answered Abraham, ‘Hear us, my lord; you are a prince of God among us. Bury your dead in the choicest of our tombs. None of us will withhold from you his tomb to hinder you from burying your dead.’ Abraham rose and bowed to the Hittites, the people of the land. And he said to them, ‘If you are willing that I should bury my dead out of my sight, hear me and entreat for me Ephron the son of Zohar, that he may give me the cave of Machpelah, which he owns; it is at the end of his field. For the full price let him give it to me in your presence as property for a burying place.’ Now Ephron was sitting among the Hittites, and Ephron the Hittite answered Abraham in the hearing of the Hittites, of all who went in at the gate of his city, ‘No, my lord, hear me: I give you the field, and I give you the cave that is in it. In the sight of the sons of my people I give it to you. Bury your dead.’ Then Abraham bowed down before the people of the land. And he said to Ephron in the hearing of the people of the land, ‘But if you will, hear me: I give the price of the field. Accept it from me, that I may bury my dead there.’ Ephron answered Abraham, ‘My lord, listen to me: a piece of land worth four hundred shekels of silver, what is that between you and me? Bury your dead.’ Abraham listened to Ephron, and Abraham weighed out for Ephron the silver that he had named in the hearing of the Hittites, four hundred shekels of silver, according to the weights current among the merchants. So the field of Ephron in Machpelah, which was to the east of Mamre, the field with the cave that was in it and all the trees that were in the field, throughout its whole area, was made over to Abraham as a possession in the presence of the Hittites, before all who went in at the gate of his city. After this, Abraham buried Sarah his wife in the cave of the field of Machpelah east of Mamre (that is, Hebron) in the land of Canaan. The field and the cave that is in it were made over to Abraham as property for a burying place by the Hittites.” (Genesis 23:1–20, ESV)
New Testament Reading: 2 Peter 3:1–13
“This is now the second letter that I am writing to you, beloved. In both of them I am stirring up your sincere mind by way of reminder, that you should remember the predictions of the holy prophets and the commandment of the Lord and Savior through your apostles, knowing this first of all, that scoffers will come in the last days with scoffing, following their own sinful desires. They will say, “Where is the promise of his coming? For ever since the fathers fell asleep, all things are continuing as they were from the beginning of creation.” For they deliberately overlook this fact, that the heavens existed long ago, and the earth was formed out of water and through water by the word of God, and that by means of these the world that then existed was deluged with water and perished. But by the same word the heavens and earth that now exist are stored up for fire, being kept until the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly. But do not overlook this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance. But the day of the Lord will come like a thief, and then the heavens will pass away with a roar, and the heavenly bodies will be burned up and dissolved, and the earth and the works that are done on it will be exposed. Since all these things are thus to be dissolved, what sort of people ought you to be in lives of holiness and godliness, waiting for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be set on fire and dissolved, and the heavenly bodies will melt as they burn! But according to his promise we are waiting for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells.” (2 Peter 3:1–13, ESV)
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Introduction
The last time that we heard about Sarah, the wife of Abraham and mother of the nation of Israel, was in Genesis chapter 21. There we learned of the birth of Issac and the casting out of Ishmael. That was only two chapters ago in the book of Genesis, but think of this — 37 years passed between the events of chapter 21, and the events recorded for us here in chapter 23. Sarah was 90 years old when Issac was born, and here are told that she died at the age of 127.
I think it is good to be reminded from time to time that the scriptures are not a detailed record of the history of God’s people. Sarah lived for 127 years, and we know nothing at all about her life from the age of 90 to the time of her death. The scriptures are very selective, aren’t they? God reveals what he reveals for a purpose. Moses wrote what he wrote, not so that we might have a detailed record of the history of Abraham and Sarah, but to make a point so that people of God might be edified in every generation.
What, then, is the point of Genesis 23? What does this passage teach us?
As we consider this text carefully we find that it highlights three things: One, Abraham’s sorrow. Two, Abraham’s sojourning. And three, Abraham’s acquisition of a sliver of land in Canaan as a burial place for his wife. And you would do well to notice that it is actually the third of these things that receives the most attention in this text. Yes, Abraham mourned Sarah’s death. And yes, he continued on as a sojourner in the land Canaan. But notice that the bulk of Genesis 23 focuses upon the negotiation between Abraham and Ephron the Hittite, and Abraham’s eventual acquisition of a sliver of land in Canaan to be used as a burial place for his people. The question we must keep in mind is, why this is emphasis upon Abraham’s possession of a piece of land?
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Abraham’s Sorrow
But let us begin by first of all considering Abraham’s sorrow in verses 1 and 2.
There we read, “Sarah lived 127 years; these were the years of the life of Sarah. And Sarah died at Kiriath-arba (that is, Hebron) in the land of Canaan, and Abraham went in to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her” (Genesis 23:1–2, ESV).
I would like to make three observations about this sad scene.
One, notice that Abraham and Sarah, as important as they were to the fulfillment of God’s redemptive purposes, were not exempt from the curse of death that has come upon all mankind as a result of Adam’s fall. From our point of view, Sarah lived a very long life. 127 years is a very long time for a person to live. But we should remember that in the world that was before the flood, men and women lived much longer than that! I suppose that some of those pre-diluvian figures — men like Enoch and Adam — would look upon Sarah’s 127 years and say that she died too young! Furthermore, we should also remember that when God made Adam and Eve in the beginning, he created them to live forever and ever. Had Adam past the test he would have been moved out of that probationary period and into glory to live before God forever and ever. But remember, the wages of sin is death. And because all are in sin and have themselves sinned, all die. This is emphasized in the Genesis narrative again and again — so and so lived for this many years, and they died. As significant as Sarah was to the accomplishment of God’s plan of redemption, she still died.
APPLICATION: Brothers and sisters, you and I ought to live our lives being mindful of our mortality. There is a ditch on both sides of the road when it comes to this.
Some give little thought to their mortality. They live as if they will never die. And they overlook the fact that when they do they will stand before their maker. This might be particularly true for those who are young. Time moves more slowly for the young. And to them 60, 70, or 80 years seems like such a long way off. They often forget that the LORD might choose to take them at a younger age, and so they give little thought to their mortality. But even those who are advanced in years make the mistake of thinking little of their mortality.
Some slip into the ditch on the other side of the road. These dwell upon the thought of death to the point of being overcome by fear. These are so mindful of the frailty of life that they find it difficult to live.
Brothers and sisters, God’s call us to avoid both errors. We are live being mindful of our morality so that we might live humbly and purposefully, but we are also to live courageously and by faith, trusting ever in our God, knowing that he is able to bring us safely into our heavenly home.
Abraham and Sarah, as important as they were to the fulfillment of God’s redemptive purposes, were not exempt from the curse of death that has come upon all mankind as a result of Adam’s fall.
Two, recognize that the neither were they exempt from sorrow.
This point hardly needs to made. If you have been following along in our study of Genesis you know full well that Abraham and Sarah experinced sorrow.
APPLICATION: Friends, do not be surprised by sorrow when it strikes. Give thanks to God for the good times, and when difficulties arise, cling to Christ and “Count it all joy… [knowing] that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing” (James 1:2–4, ESV).
Three, notice that Abraham truly mourned Sarah’s death. He “went in to mourn for [her] and to weep for her.”
This is truly a touching scene. Here we see Abraham’s love for Sarah put on display. Some assume that because the text says “Abraham went in to mourn for Sarah” this means that he was not by her side during her ailment, or as she passed, indicating some separation between the two. But this is not necessarily the case. The language used here refers to mourning conducted in a formal fashion according to the customs of the day.
APPLICATION: There are, of course, relationships that are especially close — the relationship between friends, brothers and sisters, parents and children. But the relationship between husband and wife is most intimate, for in marriage the two become one flesh. It is no secret that Abraham and Sarah had their difficulties in marriage. I can think of three (maybe four) events reordered for us in the pages of holy scripture that must have put a significant strain upon their marriage. And yet here we see Abraham and Sarah together in the end. Abraham truly mourn over her passing. Brothers and sisters, if you are married, cherish your spouse. Protect that relationship. Make it first above all other earthly relationships. Invest into. And when wrongs committed, repent truly and be sure to forgive. May our final moments with our spouses be a touching as the one that we see here.
Abraham mourned Sarah’s death.
APPLICTAION: See, therefore, that you are permitted to mourn even if your hope is set in Christ Jesus.
I have noticed that amongst the Christian community mourning is sometimes frowned upon as if it is an indication of a lack of faith, or the result of forgetting the hope that we have in Christ. Notice how we no longer call them funerals, but celebrations of life. Really, I don’t think it matters what we call them. My concern is that Christian’s be permitted to mourn. Abraham sincerely mourned Sarah’s death. Christ sincerely mourned at the death of his friend Lazarus. “[He] wept. So the Jews said, ‘See how he loved him!’” (John 11:35–36, ESV).
The scriptures do not forbid us from morning. Death is an awful thing. It is, in a sense, an unnatural thing — God created us in the beginning to live forever. Death is the consequence of our rebellion. It is right, therefor, for the follower of Christ to mourn. But the scriptures do warn against grieving “as others do who have no hope” (1 Thessalonians 4:13, ESV). In other words, our faith in God and in the Christ whom he has sent should regulate our morning.
When a follower of Christ mourns, he should, in due to time, lift his eyes up from the earth to heaven. The mourner must
When a follower of Christ morns he should do so with the help of others. Notice that Abraham and Christ both morned in the presence of others. They did not isolate themselves from the community. Keep this in mind, friends. We live in an unusually individualistic and private society. We do a lot of things alone. Grieving is not something that we should do all alone,
When a follower of Christ mourns he is to do so as one who’s hope is set firmly in God. This is what the Apostle explicitly calls the Christian to.
Friends, the time comes for us to mourn, let us mourn well and to the glory of our God who has given us hope that goes beyond the grave through the Christ whom he has provided.
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Abraham’s Sojourning
We have considered Abraham’s sorrow. Let us now briefly consider Abraham’s sojourning by looking at verse 3-4.
There we read, “And Abraham rose up from before his dead and said to the Hittites, ‘I am a sojourner and foreigner among you; give me property among you for a burying place, that I may bury my dead out of my sight’” (Genesis 23:3–4, ESV).
The Hittites were what the inhabitants of the land of Canaan were called generally. And notice that when Sarah died Abraham had to ask them for a place to burry his dead, for he was still a sojourner. He was a foreigner who owned not a single piece of land in Canaan — not even a plot to burry his dead.
This is significant when we considered it light of the promises of God made to Abraham concerning the land. God promised Abraham that he would have many descendents, and he had provided Isaac. God also promised that his descendents would possess Canaan, but as of yet, Abraham was still a sojourner.
APPLICATION: The fact of Abraham’s sojourning would have an impact upon all of his descendents, physically and spiritually considered.
The Jewish people, once they finally came to possess the land of Canaan, were to be mindful of the sojourners who lived amongst them. They were to be careful not to oppress them in any way. For example, Exodus 23:9 says, “You shall not oppress a sojourner. You know the heart of a sojourner, for you were sojourners in the land of Egypt” (Exodus 23:9, ESV). Furthermore, the Israelite who lived in the promise land after the exodus and conquest was to live in the land knowing that their hope was truly set in the heavenly Jerusalem, and not the earthly.
And listen to Peter’s words to the Christian living under the New Covenant: “Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul. Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation.” (1 Peter 2:11–12, ESV)
As children of Abraham we are to maintain the mentality of a sojourner. This does not mean that were are forbidden from acquiring property or from building wealth. But it does mean that we are to live on this earth continually mindful of the fact that this is not our home. We are to store up treasures, not on earth, but heaven.
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Abraham’s Acquisition Of A Sliver Of Land In Canaan
Lastly, let us consider Abraham’s acquisition of a sliver of land in Canaan as described in verses 5 through 20.
I will not walk you though this passage methodically given it’s length, but notice a few things.
One, notice that the bulk of Genesis 23 is devoted to the story of Abraham’s acquisition of this land. This is the thing that Moses wants to highlight. Sarah’s death and Abraham’s mourning is only a precursor to the main story.
Two, notice the respect that Abraham showed to the Hittites.
APPLICATION: May all of Abraham’s children learn how to sojourn from their father. Though it is true that if we belong to God we are to live lives of holiness in the world. Though it is true that there should be a noticeable difference between the way that we live and the way that the world lives. It is also true that we are strive for peace with all men, and to treat others in a respectful way.
Listen to Peter again, when he says, “Now who is there to harm you if you are zealous for what is good? But even if you should suffer for righteousness’ sake, you will be blessed. Have no fear of them, nor be troubled, but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame. For it is better to suffer for doing good, if that should be God’s will, than for doing evil” (1 Peter 3:13–17, ESV).
The Christian sojourner is to give “a reason for the hope that is in [them]; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” The Christian is to have a “good conscience” concerning the treatment of the non-Christian, and even those who persecute them.
APPLICATION: Perhaps you have noticed that our culture is not currently characterized by kind, gentle, and respectful behavior. It seem’s that people have forgotten how to disagree with civility. Perhaps it is the social media that had contributed to it, but there is a harshness that characterizes our discourse. I believe that Christians are called to be better than this. Followers of Christ are called solve their enemies and do good to those who mistreat them. Followers of Christ are to treat people with gentleness and respect. Our speech is to be seasoned with salt. Friends, let us not be conformed to the way of the world, but transformed by the renewal of our minds. Here is one way that we can shine as lights in darkness — we can treat those around us with respect.
Abraham showed respect to the Hittites. And three, notice the honor that they showed to him, saying in verse 6, “Hear us, my lord; you are a prince of God among us. Bury your dead in the choicest of our tombs. None of us will withhold from you his tomb to hinder you from burying your dead” (Genesis 23:6, ESV), and again in verse 11 Ephron says, “No, my lord, hear me: I give you the field, and I give you the cave that is in it. In the sight of the sons of my people I give it to you. Bury your dead” (Genesis 23:11, ESV).
The offer was really this — I will loan you the field. I will give it to you for your use, is the idea. But the land would not have been Abraham’s possession if he accepted this generous offer. The offer was kind and generous, but Abraham wanted to own the land. And so in verse 11 we read that he “bowed down before the people of the land. And he said to Ephron in the hearing of the people of the land, ‘But if you will, hear me: I give the price of the field. Accept it from me, that I may bury my dead there” (Genesis 23:12–13, ESV).
Ephron eventually named the price — 400 shekels of silver. It’s hard to know if this was a good price, or an inflated price. We simply don’t know enough about land prices in that time. But the point is this — Abraham bought. He did not negotiate the price. He respectfully paid what Ephron asked.
Listen to the emphasis upon Abraham’s acquisition in verses 17-20. “So the field of Ephron in Machpelah, which was to the east of Mamre, the field with the cave that was in it and all the trees that were in the field, throughout its whole area, was made over to Abraham as a possession in the presence of the Hittites, before all who went in at the gate of his city. After this, Abraham buried Sarah his wife in the cave of the field of Machpelah east of Mamre (that is, Hebron) in the land of Canaan. The field and the cave that is in it were made over to Abraham as property for a burying place by the Hittites” (Genesis 23:17–20, ESV).
Friends, the story of Genesis can be describes as the story of the beginning of the fulfillment of the promises of God made to Abraham.
It was promised to Abraham that his descendents would be like the dust of the earth, the stars of heaven, and the sand on the seashore — nations would come from him. But what did Abraham see? He saw only his son Issac.
And it was promised that land of Canaan would also be his. But what did he himself come into possession of? Only one sliver of land to be used as a burial ground for his people.
I suppose we might emphasize how little of the fulfillment of the promises that Abraham saw. But we mighty also emphaiszze the fact that the LORD did give him something. He blessed him to at least have a taste of the fulfillment. He saw Isaac, and he owned a bit of the land to burry his dead. Abraham was given a taste.
Notice that this is how God has chosen to accomplish his plan of redemption. His plan unfolded progressively. The illustration of a seed is always helpful here. When God gave those promises to Abraham it was like a farmer dropping a seed down into the earth. And when Abraham saw the birth of Issac and when he acquired the land it was like a farmer being blessed to see the plant spout forth from the earth. How invigorating that experience must have been for Abraham to the first fruits. It must have given him hope that indeed God would bring his promises to fulfilment.
APPLICATION: Brothers and sisters, the LORD has done the same for you and me. Though it is true that the Christ has come, we still have not received the final fulfillment of the promises made to Abraham. According to his promise we are waiting for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells” (2 Peter 3:1–13, ESV).
But God has given us a downpayment. Having believed upon Christ you were “sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory” (Ephesians 1:13–14, ESV).
And we too have seen the firstfrutes when Christ rose from the grave. “But in fact Christ has been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep.” (1 Corinthians 15:20, ESV)
Brothers and sisters, just like father Abraham you and I long to see the new heaven and earth and the resurrection of the dead on the last day. And just as he did for Abraham, the LORD has graciously provided us with a foretaste and a downpayment which guarantee the full and final fulfillment of these things — the resurrection of Christ from the grave proves that he will raise the dead who are in him, and the Spirit has been poured out upon us showing that the LORD will bring us to glory.
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Conclusion
Friends, may you be encouraged by these things and continue on faithful to the end. My desire is that “each one of you [would] show the same earnestness to have the full assurance of hope until the end, so that you may not be sluggish, but imitators of those who through faith and patience inherit the promises” (Hebrews 6:11–12, ESV).
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Old Testament Reading: Genesis 20
“From there Abraham journeyed toward the territory of the Negeb and lived between Kadesh and Shur; and he sojourned in Gerar. And Abraham said of Sarah his wife, ‘She is my sister.’ And Abimelech king of Gerar sent and took Sarah. But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night and said to him, ‘Behold, you are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a man’s wife.’ Now Abimelech had not approached her. So he said, ‘Lord, will you kill an innocent people? Did he not himself say to me, ‘She is my sister’? And she herself said, ‘He is my brother.’ In the integrity of my heart and the innocence of my hands I have done this.’ Then God said to him in the dream, ‘Yes, I know that you have done this in the integrity of your heart, and it was I who kept you from sinning against me. Therefore I did not let you touch her. Now then, return the man’s wife, for he is a prophet, so that he will pray for you, and you shall live. But if you do not return her, know that you shall surely die, you and all who are yours.’ So Abimelech rose early in the morning and called all his servants and told them all these things. And the men were very much afraid. Then Abimelech called Abraham and said to him, ‘What have you done to us? And how have I sinned against you, that you have brought on me and my kingdom a great sin? You have done to me things that ought not to be done.’ And Abimelech said to Abraham, ‘What did you see, that you did this thing?’ Abraham said, ‘I did it because I thought, ‘There is no fear of God at all in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.’ Besides, she is indeed my sister, the daughter of my father though not the daughter of my mother, and she became my wife. And when God caused me to wander from my father’s house, I said to her, ‘This is the kindness you must do me: at every place to which we come, say of me, ‘He is my brother.’’Then Abimelech took sheep and oxen, and male servants and female servants, and gave them to Abraham, and returned Sarah his wife to him. And Abimelech said, ‘Behold, my land is before you; dwell where it pleases you.’ To Sarah he said, ‘Behold, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver. It is a sign of your innocence in the eyes of all who are with you, and before everyone you are vindicated.’ Then Abraham prayed to God, and God healed Abimelech, and also healed his wife and female slaves so that they bore children. For the LORD had closed all the wombs of the house of Abimelech because of Sarah, Abraham’s wife” (Genesis 20, ESV).
New Testament Reading: 1 Corinthians 1:18–31
“For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. For it is written, ‘I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and the discernment of the discerning I will thwart.’ Where is the one who is wise? Where is the scribe? Where is the debater of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe. For Jews demand signs and Greeks seek wisdom, but we preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and folly to Gentiles, but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God. For the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men. For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, ‘Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.’” (1 Corinthians 1:18–31, ESV)
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Introduction
I can certainly understand itif when I was reading Genesis chapter 20 you thought to yourself, this sounds like familiar story — didn’t we cover this text already? Indeed, the story told in Genesis chapter 20 is very much like a story told in Genesis chapter 12 which we considered only a couple of months ago. The two stories are not identical. They differ in some important ways. But the similarities are hard to miss.
In both stories Abraham and Sarah were on the move and came into the presence of powerfull kings. In chapter 12 they sojourned down to Egypt, and here in chapter 20 we are told that they traveled down towards the Negeb, which is the dry desert region in the southern part of Canaan, and from there to the east towards Gerar. Egypt we are familiar with. Gerar, not so much. But notice that sojourning in both of these regions had the same affect upon Abraham. He began to fear that the powerful ones in the land would notice his wife and take her as their own, either because of her beauty or for the purpose political advancement, and do him harm. In each instance Abraham walked in fear and not by faith as he urged his wife to lie about her identity, saying only that she was his sister.
Now, as you know there was some truth to that lie. Sarah really was the half sister of Abraham. She was “the daughter of [his] father though not the daughter of [his] mother.” This sounds very strange to you and me. In fact, the law that would come to Israel through Moses forbid marriage between such close relatives. But remember that Abraham lived before the giving of that law and was brought up in a pagan land where marriages of this kind were not forbidden. And so there was some truth to the lie. Sarah was “indeed [Abraham’s] sister, the daughter of [his] father though not the daughter of [his] mother… (Genesis 20:12, ESV). But it was still a lie — for a half truth is in fact a lie. The full truth was that Sarah was Abraham’s wife.
Here in Genesis 20 we learn that it was their agreed upon mode of operation to lie in this way. When Abraham was called by Abimeleck, king of Gerar, to explain the deception he said, among other things, “And when God caused me to wander from my father’s house, I said to [Sarah], ‘This is the kindness you must do me: at every place to which we come, say of me, ‘He is my brother’” (Genesis 20:13, ESV). We know that Sarah told this lie in Egypt and Gerar, for the scriptures tell us about those events. But I wonder, how many other times did Sarah and Abraham lie given that it was their agreed upon tactic since the day they left Ur? We simply do not know. But it is possible that Sarah and Abraham told this lie many times. And it is also possible that their plan worked in every other instance. But in these two instances — in Egypt and Gerar — the same terrible thing happened. Sarah was taken into the kings harem, the king and his servants were struck with some kind of curse or plague, the LORD then appeared to the pagan kings to warn them so that Abraham was found out and confronted by these kings, after which he was rebuked by them, given gifts, and sent on his way. So yes, this story should sound very familiar to you. It is basically a repeat of the story told in Genesis 12:10-20.
But here is my question. Why the repetition? Why did Moses, under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, decide to tell what is essentially the same story twice? Stated a little bit differently, what role does this particular story play in the overall narrative of Genesis? What is its purpose?
I think there are three answers to that question. One, this story is told to promote humility within the children of Abraham. Two, this story is told to prevent pure pessimism concerning the wickedness of the nations. And three, to persuade the children of Abraham to tend to the garden of their souls, lest when they think they stand, they fall.
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To Promote Humility Within The Children of Abraham
First of all, let us consider how this story promotes humility within the children of Abraham.
Immagine being one of Abraham’s physical descendents. Imagine being Issac, Jacob or any one of the people of Israel who lived under Moses up until the death, burial and resurrection of the Christ. If you were one of these children of Abraham according to the flesh then it was rightly said of you that you were one of God’s chosen people. You, having descended from Abraham’s loins, were set apart in the world as distinct from the nations. You belonged to a holy people. Prophets walked amongst you. You were in a unique covenantal relationship with God. Your people were entrusted with the promises of God. From you the Christ would come. Indeed, it was a great privilege to be one of God’s chosen people in that Old Covenant age.
Paul spoke of the privileged position of the Hebrew people when he wrote, “They are Israelites, and to them belong the adoption, the glory, the covenants, the giving of the law, the worship, and the promises. To them belong the patriarchs, and from their race, according to the flesh, is the Christ, who is God over all, blessed forever. Amen” (Romans 9:4–5, ESV).
The Hebrew people, who descended from Abraham according to the flesh, were God’s chosen people. When I say that they were chosen, I mean of course that they were chosen according to the flesh. Their nation was set apart from the other nations and given a place of privilege in the world. They were indeed a people uniquely blessed by God. And with this privilege came the temptation to grow puffed up with pride.
What I am saying is that the story of Genesis 20 is meant to deter pride and to promote humility amongst the Hebrews. How so? Well, the story demonstrates yet again that the election, calling and blessing of Abraham was not based upon something deserving within him, but purely upon the grace of God. Therefore, when the Israelite thought considered their election by God it should have produced humility, and not pride.
I say that the story demonstrates yet again that the election, calling and blessing of Abraham was not based upon something deserving within him, but purely upon the grace of God, because evidence for this is peppered throughout the Abraham story. For example, Abraham was called, not from a holy and righteous people, but out from amongst an idolatrous people. Joshua highlighted this when he spoke to the nation of Israel concerning their heritage, saying, “Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel, ‘Long ago, your fathers lived beyond the Euphrates, Terah, the father of Abraham and of Nahor; and they served other gods” (Joshua 24:2, ESV). What was Joshua’s point? Was it not to demonstrate to Israel that Abraham their forefather was called by the grace of God alone, and not because of something deserving within him. Abraham’s election, therefore, and Israel’s election, was not a reason to boast. To the contrary, it was a reason to stand before the LORD with humility and gratitude in the heart. Not only was Abraham chosen and called by grace, he was also preserved by the grace of God alone. Peppered throughout the history of Abraham are stories highlighting his flaws and imperfections. And this story is one of those.
Abraham looks really bad in this story, doesn’t he? He lied yet again. He made a mess of things. And God himself had to intervene to preserve Sarah as his wife.
By the way, all of this should be considered in light of the promises made both to Abraham and Sarah that together they would have a son. That was all threatened when Sarah was taken into the kings haram. Not only was Sarah endangered, but so too was the fulfillment of the promise of God concerning a son. How in the world would Abraham and Sarah have a son now that Sarah belonged to Abimelech, king of Gerar? Perhaps you have noticed that this is a major theme in the narrative of Genesis. An offspring as promised both to Adam and to Abraham, and that offering is always being threatened.
Notice also that when Abimelech, king of Gerar, finally confronted Abraham, Abraham ended up looking very foolish. Ironically, Abimelech appeared to me more righteous than Abraham, God’s chosen one. Verse 9: “Abimelech called Abraham and said to him, ‘What have you done to us? And how have I sinned against you, that you have brought on me and my kingdom a great sin? You have done to me things that ought not to be done.’”
The point is this — Abraham really made a mess of things when he decided, yet again, to live being driven by fear instead of living by faith. Moses did not bury this unflattering story when he wrote Genesis and delivered it to Israel. Instead he highlighted it. This he did, in part, to check pride within ethnic Israel. This he did to promote humility within the children of Abraham. It is as if Moses said this, but in the form of a narrative: “For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God’” (1 Corinthians 1:18–29, ESV).
APPLICATION: Brothers and sisters, I do not know of any within this congregation who are descendents of Abraham according to the flesh. In other words, I don’t know that there are any among us who are of Jewish descent. But if you have faith in Christ — that is to say, if you have the faith of Abraham — then you are his children according to the Spirit. The scriptures are very clear concerning this, saying, “For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you are Christ’s, then you are Abraham’s offspring, heirs according to promise” (Galatians 3:27–29, ESV). And again the same Apostle writes, “That is why it depends on faith, in order that the promise may rest on grace and be guaranteed to all [Abraham’s] offspring—not only to the adherent of the law but also to the one who shares the faith of Abraham, who is the father of us all, as it is written, ‘I have made you the father of many nations’—in the presence of the God in whom he believed, who gives life to the dead and calls into existence the things that do not exist. In hope he believed against hope, that he should become the father of many nations, as he had been told, ‘So shall your offspring be’” (Romans 4:16–18, ESV).
If you are in Christ, you are a child of Abraham. You are his offspring, perhaps not according to the flesh, but by faith. And the scriptures also call you chosen ones, or the elect of God. Again you chosen not in a fleshly way as the Hebrew people were, being set apart in the world based upon ethnicity. But you have been chosen in a spiritual way. You have been chosen in Christ Jesus. You have been particularly selected to belong to God through faith in the Christ whom he has sent. How any Christian who claims to have the scriptures as their authority for truth can deny this, I do not know, for it is so plainly set forth in scriptures.
In John chapter 17Jesus himself prayed for a particular group of people who were given to him by the Father. He prayed for them, this is, for the elect, saying, “I am praying for them. I am not praying for the world but for those whom you have given me, for they are yours” (John 17:9, ESV).
In the book of Acts we have record of the preaching of the gospel to Jews and Gentiles alike. But in one place we are told that “as many as were appointed to eternal life believed” (Acts 13:48, ESV). This is the doctrine of election. Many heard the gospel proclaimed that day in Antioch in Pisidia, but it was those who had been “appointed to eternal life” who believed.
Paul clearly teaches that if we are in Christ it is because we were chosen by God. In Romans chapters 8 he teaches that those in Christ were foreknown and predestined. Later in the same chapter he calls those who have faith in Christ “God’s elect”. What does it mean for someone to be “elect”? It means that they have been chosen by someone for something. In this instance it is the Christian who has been chosen by God for eternal life in Christ Jesus. How is this not clear. If what Paul mean to say was that Christians are those who have chosen God, then why does he call them the elect — that is, the chosen ones? Would he not have said that Christians are the choosing ones, or the electing ones if what he meant to emphasize was our choosing of God rather than God’s choosing of us? No friends, it was not we who first chose God, but God who chose us before the world was created. This he explains more fully in Romans 9 as discusses, and I quote, “God’s purpose of election”.
I could set before you many, many passages from Paul’s letters to demonstrate to you that if you are in Christ it is ultimately you were chosen by God, but one of the clearest passages is found in Ephesian 1:3 and following where we read, “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he [the Father] chose us in him [Christ] before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:3–6, ESV).
Brothers and sisters, if you have faith in Christ it is because God chose you even before he created the heavens and earth. He knew you as his own before you were even born. He predestined you. He chose you and set you apart. When Christ prayed that priestly prayer in John 17, he prayed for you, and not the world. When died, he died for you, and not the world. No where do the scriptures ever teach that Christ shed his blood to atone for the sins of those who were not given to him. Remember how he said, “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep” (John 10:11, ESV). And in another place, “for this is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins” (Matthew 26:28, ESV) — many, and not all. And yet again remember that husbands are to love their wives “as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish” (Ephesians 5:25–27, ESV). Friends, this Christ did for the church, and not for the world.
Friends, if you love Christ it is because he first loved you. The faith that you have is a gift from him. It did not originate in your mind and heart. For “by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast” (Ephesians 2:8–9, ESV). Even your perseverance in Christ is by the grace. He will finish the good work that he has begun in each of his children. “For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified” (Romans 8:29–30, ESV). Your salvation in Christ is God’s work, not yours.
Now, I do not doubt for a moment that you have done many things along the way. You did, in fact choose Christ. At some point you decided to turn from sin and to Christ. You, in that moment, believed upon him and called him Lord. It was you who did that, and not God for you or on your behalf. And even today you are choosing to remain in Christ. You are persevering in him. And this you must do to the end. These choices are real choices. You have made them freely and willing. But here is the deeper truth that the scriptures also reveal. All of this is a gift. It is all by God’s grace. You have turned from sin to believed upon Christ because he has freed you from your natural bondage to make you willing and able to believe.
Abraham was chosen by the grace of God, and not because of something deserving in him.
So too, Israel was chosen by the grace of God, and not because of something meritorious in her!
Listen to the how the LORD spoke through Ezekiel the prophet concerning Israel’s beginnings. Ezekiel 16:1: “Again the word of the LORD came to me: ‘Son of man, make known to Jerusalem her abominations, and say, Thus says the Lord GOD to Jerusalem: Your origin and your birth are of the land of the Canaanites; your father was an Amorite and your mother a Hittite. And as for your birth, on the day you were born your cord was not cut, nor were you washed with water to cleanse you, nor rubbed with salt, nor wrapped in swaddling cloths. No eye pitied you, to do any of these things to you out of compassion for you, but you were cast out on the open field, for you were abhorred, on the day that you were born. ‘And when I passed by you and saw you wallowing in your blood, I said to you in your blood, ‘Live!’ I said to you in your blood, ‘Live!’ I made you flourish like a plant of the field. And you grew up and became tall and arrived at full adornment…” (Ezekiel 16:1–7, ESV)
Was Israel chosen by God? Yes they were! According to the flesh they were chosen by him. Not all in Israel had faith. In fact, many did not. They were a chosen nation. But they were chosen by God’s grace, and not because they were deserving.
And the same is true for all who are chosen by God to have salvation in Christ Jesus. Their election is based, not upon some foreseen good in them, but in the sovereign good pleasure of God. “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast” (Ephesians 2:8–9, ESV). And in another place we read, “For he says to Moses, ‘I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.’ So then [Paul says] it [election] depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy.” (Romans 9:15–16, ESV)
Brothers and sisters, do you see that the narrative we are considering today in Genesis 20 — indeed, all that the scriptures have to say concerning the election of Abraham, Israel and those united to Christ by faith, Jew and Gentile alike — is meant to promote humility amongst the children of Abraham. If our election and calling is grounded in the grace of God alone — if it is all unconditional and unmerited favor — then there is no room for boasting. But if our election and calling is grounded in something in us — an inherent righteousness, or faith that is foreseen by God, or some other meritorious thing — then there is room for boasting.
I can make this really simple by asking you the question, why did God choose you? That he chose, elected, selected and called the one who has faith in Christ is the plain teaching off scripture. But here I ask you the question, why? And if your response begins with the words, “because I…” Then it proves that you have badly misinterpreted the scriptures, for then you would have grounds for boasting.
And so I ask, why did God choose you? And I pray that none of you would dare say, Because God foresaw that I would believe. Or, Because God noticed that I was searching for him. Or, God saw that I was morally upright. Or, God knew that I would work hard for his kingdom. None of these answers will do, for they contradiction the plain teaching of scripture that your election “depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy.” Indeed, if these answers were true, then you would have reason to boast before God and man, for the ground of your election and calling would then be found in you.
But here is the truth, “God… has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:3–6, ESV). And though “…you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked… and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind… God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:1–10, ESV).
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To Prevent Pure Pessimism Concerning The Wickedness Of The Nations
I have two more points to make in this sermon and only a very short time to make them. These will more like observations than fully developed points.
Why the story of Genesis 20? One, to promote humility amongst the children of Abraham by clarifying, yet again, that Abraham was chosen and called by grace alone, and not because of something meritorious within him. And two, to prevent pure pessimism concerning the wickedness of the nations.
Do you remember the story of Genesis 19? There we were told of the great wickedness of Sodom and Gomorra and the destruction of that place, God’s wrath having been poured out upon it. If we are not careful we might assume that all of the nations, and all of the non-believing peoples within those nations, are as wicked as them.
The doctrine of total depravity is a very important doctrine. It recognizes that “Man, by his fall into a state of sin, has wholly lost all ability of will to any spiritual good accompanying salvation; so as a natural man, being altogether averse from that good, and dead in sin, is not able by his own strength to convert himself, or to prepare himself thereunto.”
But it would careless of us to assume that all men are equally wicked. It would also be careless for us to assume that men and women never do good, for the do! Indeed, no one is good but God alone. But men and women — even those who are not in Christ — do do good! But even this is by the mercy of God.
Is this principle not clearly illustrated in this passage? Did not the heathen king Abimelech act more righteous than Abraham who was chosen and called by God, and made righteous through faith in the Christ who would come?
Abraham did what he did because he thought that “there [was] no fear of God at all in [that] place, and they [would] kill [him] because of [his] wife” (Genesis 20:11, ESV). In fact, it seemed as if the people of Gerar feared the LORD more than Abraham did (at least in this moment) (v. 8). Abimelech was deeply distressed over the thought of almost having committed such a “great sin”, namely the sin of taking another man’s wife as his own (v. 9). And Abimelech, after confronting Abraham, did the right thing. He “took sheep and oxen, and male servants and female servants, and gave them to Abraham, and returned Sarah his wife to him. And Abimelech said, ‘Behold, my land is before you; dwell where it pleases you.’ To Sarah he said, ‘Behold, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver. It is a sign of your innocence in the eyes of all who are with you, and before everyone you are vindicated’” (Genesis 20:14–16, ESV). In this instance Abimelech walked with “integrity” in his heart. His hands were innocent (v. 5).
But why? Notice what the LORD said to Abimelech in verse 7: “Yes, I know that you have done this in the integrity of your heart, and it was I who kept you from sinning against me. Therefore I did not let you touch her” (Genesis 20:6, ESV).
This is why I say that this passage prevents the children of Abraham from pure pessimism concerning the wickedness of the nations, for it reveals that LORD is merciful to restrain evil in the world and to promote good even amongst those who do not worship God.
The doctrine of common grace, as some call it, is an important compliment to the doctrine of original sin. It helps to understand it can be that we are surrounded by many who are not in Christ and yet seem to be such good people. They are not good in an ultimate sense. Nor are the good with God, for none are apart from faith in Christ. But there are “good people in the world”, and this also is owed to the mercy of God.
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To Persuade The Children Of Abraham To Tend To The Garden of Their Souls Lest, When They Think They Stand, They Fall
Thirdly and lastly, the story that we encounter in Genesis 20 ought to persuade the children of Abraham to tend to the garden of their souls lest, when they think they stand, they fall.
Here I am making only this simple observation. Think of how old Abraham and Sarah were at this point. Think of how many times the LORD had given his promises to them, and how many times he had proved himself faithful. And yet here they are making the same mistake that they had made so many years ago when they went down into Egypt.
Application: Bothers and sisters, we cannot grow complacent with sin. We must fight against it daily and be forever vigilant in our battle against temptation. “Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:6–8, ESV). “Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall. No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it” (1 Corinthians 10:12–13, ESV).
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