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Emmaus is a Reformed Baptist church in Hemet, California. We are a community of Christ followers who love God, love one another, and serve the church, community, and nations, for the glory of God and for our joy.
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Hemet, CA 92544
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WEEKLY READINGS
SUNDAY > 1 Sam 3, Rom 3, Jer 41, Luke 10
MONDAY > 1 Sam 4, Rom 4, Jer 42, Luke 11
TUESDAY > 1 Sam 5‐6, Rom 5, Jer 43, Luke 12
WEDNESDAY > 1 Sam 7‐8, Rom 6, Jer 44‐45, Luke 13
THURSDAY > 1 Sam 9, Rom 7, Jer 46, Luke 14
FRIDAY > 1 Sam 10, Rom 8, Jer 47, Luke 15
SATURDAY > 1 Sam 11, Rom 9, Jer 48, Luke 16
MEMORY VERSE(S)
“If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God” (Colossians 3:1, ESV).
CATECHISM QUESTION(S)
Baptist Catechism #31:
Q. Wherein consisteth (consists) Christ’s exaltation?
A. Christ’s exaltation consisteth (consists) in His rising again from the dead on the third day, in ascending up into heaven, in sitting at the right hand of God the Father, and in coming to judge the world at the last day.
Baptist Catechism #31:
027 – Catechesis – Baptist Catechism #31
Musical Worship:
My Worth Is Not In What I Own – LYRICS
Aug 20
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Sermon manuscript available at emmausrbc.org
Aug 20
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Old Testament Reading: Exodus 22:21–28
“You shall not wrong a sojourner or oppress him, for you were sojourners in the land of Egypt. You shall not mistreat any widow or fatherless child. If you do mistreat them, and they cry out to me, I will surely hear their cry, and my wrath will burn, and I will kill you with the sword, and your wives shall become widows and your children fatherless. If you lend money to any of my people with you who is poor, you shall not be like a moneylender to him, and you shall not exact interest from him. If ever you take your neighbor’s cloak in pledge, you shall return it to him before the sun goes down, for that is his only covering, and it is his cloak for his body; in what else shall he sleep? And if he cries to me, I will hear, for I am compassionate. You shall not revile God, nor curse a ruler of your people (Exodus 22:21–28, ESV).
New Testament Reading: Ephesians 6:5-9
“Bondservants, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a bondservant or is free. Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him.” (Ephesians 6:5–9, ESV)
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[Please excuse any and all typos and misspellings within this manuscript. It has been published online for the benefit of the saints of Emmaus Reformed Baptist Church, but without the benefit of proofreading.]
Introduction
I probably don’t need to tell you that the subject that is before us today is a delicate one. It was a delicate subject in Paul’s day, and it is a delicate subject in ours, but for different reasons.
In Paul’s day slavery was interwoven into the fabric of society. It was institutional. It was legal under Roman law. To give you an idea of how pervasive slavery was in Roman society, historians estimate that as many as 1/3 of the residence of Ephesus were slaves. Most of them worked in agrarian contexts and were, therefore, crucial to the stability of that society. Economic stability depended upon them. The food supply depended upon them. Slaves would become slaves for a number of reason. Perhaps it was through military conquest. Perhaps a person fell into economic hardship and thus had no other option but to sell themselves into slavery for a time. In those days unwanted infants were sometimes left outside to die of exposure, and slave traders would pick them up to sell them as slaves. Others were simply born into slavery. It was not at all uncommon for slaves to be treated very harshly by their Roman masters. Neither was it uncommon for slaves to be rebellious (and even violent) towards their masters. So when Paul wrote to the church in Ephesus he knew that there would certainly be slaves and masters within the congregation. He knew that these “bondservants”, as they are called here in the ESV, were considered apart of the family in that culture. And so Paul addressed the relationship between master and slave as he gave instructions for the household — husbands and wives, parents and children, masters and slaves are addressed by the Apostle. Please understand that what Paul says here to masters and slaves was in fact revolutionary, provocative and controversial in his day. I will say a little more about how Paul’s word’s would have been received by his first century Greco-Roman audience in a moment. But for now, please understand that this was a delicate issue even then.
In our day the issue is delicate but for different reasons. For those of us living in the United Stated in the year 2020 it is difficult for us to read the words “masters” and “bondservants” and to not think about the slavery that existed in this country not long ago. And when we think about that form of slavery, we understand that it was unjust and are right to celebrate its eradication. In our countries history a large portion of the population considered a particular race of men to be an inferior race. Black men and women, boys and girls, were unjustly treated. They were deprived of their natural rights. They were oppressed. And so it is right for us to condemn slavery as it existed in the American context. And it is right for us to see to it that it is thoroughly and forever eradicated. As we live within this society and seek to promote justice in this land never should we tolerate laws that favor or oppress one race of men over another. This is a part of our civil responsibility. As Christian men and women it is right for us to engage in the political realm and to promote justice whenever possible.
Thankfully, slavery is no longer legal in our nation. Slavery is no longer interwoven into the fabric of our society. It is not institutional, as it was in our nations histiory and in first century Rome. But slavery does exist in the world. There are even slaves in our land. I’m am here thinking of those slaves who have been trafficked illegally. And so I think it is important to say from the outset that Paul’s words do not in any way apply to this form of slavery, which is illegal, purely exploitative, sinful and unjust. Stated differently, in no way does Paul say to this kind of slave — a slave who has been trafficked illegally and exploited — “obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ…” (Ephesians 6:5, ESV). Certainly not! And the one who is in bondage to this kind of slavery should seek to escape these bonds at the first opportunity, and to seek the assistance of others, particularly our criminal justice system. To the one who has been stolen away or enticed into this form of slavery I say, you are in no way obligated to submit to this oppression. Christians, we must be mindful of the fact that this kind of evil does exist within the world, and we should be eager to eradicate it from our society as we have opportunity as citizens of this land.
As we consider Paul’s instructions to Christian masters and bondservants we should notice that he neither condemns slavery as inherently sinful, nor does he condone slavery as an institution to be desired. Instead, he simply addressed slavery as a matter of fact and gives instructions to Christian slaves and masters so that they might walk in a manner that is worthy of the calling to which they had been called, even within the context of this undesirable institution.
Marriage was instituted by God at creation. So too was the family. Even in the garden, before sin entered the world, Adam and Eve were to fill the earth. They were to raise their children in the Lord until they themselves were joined in marriage to another and established households of their own. Slavery was not instituted at creation, but came to be only through the effects of the fall of man into sin. As men and women grew destitute, or were conquered by others more powerful than themselves, they became slaves. And so, though slavery — that is to say, the practice of one man having authority over another’s time, energies and abilities — may not be inherently evil, its presence in the world can only be explained if one considers the fall of man into sin and it’s effects. And we know that slavery — though it may not be not inherently evil — is most often sinful, as men oppress others unjustly and treat them harshly, failing to honor them as made in the image of God.
When I say that slavery is not inherently evil I mean that it is not impossible to imagine a situation where someone comes to be a slave — a bondservant or indentured servant — in a way that is just. Perhaps they become destitute. Perhaps they have become so indebted to another that they must sell themselves into slavery for a time inorder to free themselves from the debt. Perhaps the time of service is the penalty for a crime committed where recompense is required. I understand that our economic and judicial systems do not function in this way. And I am not here trying to make a case for it. But I think that we must acknowledge that economic and judicial systems have functioned this way throughout most of the history of the world, and I do not think that we can label them sinful or unjust automiatically. And in situations such as the ones I have described, it is not impossible to imagine a master treating his bondservant fairly, justly, and even with kindness. This is why I have said that we should be careful to not condemn all forms of slavery as inherently evil. It would be very easy for us to do this given the form of slavery that was only recently eradicated from our land, and given the tendency that men have had throughout the history of the world to abuse their authority, and to oppress those who are under them. Given these realities it would be easy to condemn all forms of servitude as inherently evil, but this would be careless, I think. It would miss the point and fail to identify with precession the true evil and injustice that has often plagued the institution of slavery throughout the history of the world. In fact, though we have eradicated all forms of legal and institutional slavery from our society, it is possible that we have introduced other forms of injustice in its place. Only by carefully defining justice will we be able to identify injustice. We must consider these matters carefully, friends, lest we trade one evil for another.
So why have I said this? Why have I bothered to say that, though slavery is often sinful, it is not inherently so? Why I have bothered to point out that there are different forms of “slavery” — some may be just, while many others are unjust? Well, it should be obvious, I think. As I have said, Paul does not condemn slavery as inherently sinful, nor does he condone slavery as an institution to be desired. Instead, he simply addressed slavery as a matter of fact and gives instructions to Christian slaves and masters so that they might walk in a manner that is worthy of the calling to which they had been called, even within the context of this undesirable institution. The same could be said of Paul’s statement in Colossians 3, and of his letter to Philemon. In this epistles Paul takes the same approach. And I might also mention that this is the approach taken within the law of Moses. Were the practice inherently sinful, then Paul (and others) would have condemned it outright. Paul would have insisted that Christian masters have nothing at all too do with the institution. But instead, he takes a more measured approach, commanding bondservants and masters alike to walk worthily — that is, to act justly and in love — even within the context of this undesirable and often corrupt institution.
To be clear, I am not proposing that slavery of any kind is to be desired. It is far better that a society finds a way for men and women to pay off their financial debts, for example, while maintaining their freedom. And to be clear, I am in full agreement that the form of slavery that existed in this country not long ago was sinful, given the circumstances. A key component of that form of slavery was the idea that one race of men was inferior to another. This is contrary to the scriptures, which teach that all men are created equal being made in God’s image. Furthermore, the slavery that existed in this country was forced. The treatment of slaves was often unjust and inhuman. Natural rights were consistently violated. It is good that that form of slaver has been thoroughly eradicated from this land.
I am simply trying to think carefully about the issue and with some precession so that we might understand why the scriptures say what they say about the issue, and refrain from saying things that we might wish that they say from our modern vantage point. It is crucial that we think carefully about this delicate and emotional issue. And I’m afraid that much of the present discourse on the subject of race and slavery is careless. One crucial error this is being made is that historical figures are often judged without consideration being given to the time in which they lived. Yes, I suppose that many living in modern times would wish that Paul had labored to emancipate all slaves and to abolish the institution as it is existed in the ancient world. But such an opinion is naive. It ignores the realities of life in the ancient world. We must be careful when judging the character of men and women living in times past. We should formulate our opinions concerning their thoughts and actions carefully, taking into consideration the times in which they lived.
Now would probably be a good time for me to say something about the decision of the ESV translation committee to translate the Greek word, doulos as “bondservant” instead of “slave”, as it is in the NASB and NIV. I will let them speak for themselves. What they say in the the preface to the ESV translation is very helpful, I think. They remark that “a particular difficulty is presented [in translation work] when words in biblical Hebrew and Greek refer to ancient practices and institutions that do not correspond directly to those in the modern world. Such is the case in the translation of ‘ebed (Hebrew) and doulos (Greek), terms which are often rendered ‘slave.’ These terms, however, actually cover a range of relationships that requires a range of renderings—‘slave,’ ‘bondservant,’ or ‘servant’—depending on the context. Further, the word ‘slave’ currently carries associations with the often brutal and dehumanizing institution of slavery particularly in nineteenth-century America. For this reason, the ESV translation of the words ‘ebed and doulos has been undertaken with particular attention to their meaning in each specific context. Thus in Old Testament times, one might enter slavery either voluntarily (e.g., to escape poverty or to pay off a debt) or involuntarily (e.g., by birth, by being captured in battle, or by judicial sentence). Protection for all in servitude in ancient Israel was provided by the Mosaic Law, including specific provisions for release from slavery. In New Testament times, a doulos is often best described as a ‘bondservant’—that is, someone in the Roman Empire officially bound under contract to serve his master for seven years (except for those in Caesar’s household in Rome who were contracted for fourteen years). When the contract expired, the person was freed, given his wage that had been saved by the master, and officially declared a freedman. The ESV usage thus seeks to express the most fitting nuance of meaning in each context. Where absolute ownership by a master is envisaged (as in Romans 6), ‘slave’ is used; where a more limited form of servitude is in view, ‘bondservant’ is used (as in 1 Corinthians 7:21–24); where the context indicates a wide range of freedom (as in John 4:51), ‘servant’ is preferred” (The Holy Bible: English Standard Version (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2016).
As we now begin to turn our attention to Paul’s instructions to bondservants and masters I want for you to recognize that his teaching was in fact revolutionary and countercultural in his day.
Furthermore, I want for you to see that what Paul taught concerning the relationship between masters and bondservants would in fact contribute to the eventual eradication of the ancient slave system, which was often marked by injustice, brutality and oppression.
When Paul wrote his letter to the Ephesians he had very little influence amongst the Romans. And the Christian church to whom he wrote also lacked cultural influential — they were at that time nothing more than a persecuted minority. But over time the churches influence would grow, and the biblical teaching that all men are created equal, being made in the image of God, would have an impact upon the prevailing culture. And this should always be our hope, by the way. As we live as salt and light in the world we should hope to, not only further God’s kingdom on earth through gospel proclamation and by teaching Christ’s disciples to obey all that he has commanded, but even to impact the cultures of this world for good. We are to promote justice and peace. We are to seek the good of the city and nation in which God has placed us as we ourselves keep God’s law and urge others to do the same. As it pertains to slavery — slavery — especially the racially motivated, unjust and oppressive kind — cannot survive in a culture where the majority of men and women believe the truth that all men are created equal, being made in the image of God. And that is what Paul here teaches, as we will see. He will apply this principle to masters insisting that that they treat their bondservants with dignity, knowing that they both have the same Master in heaven, and there is no partiality with him. And over time — though Paul would not live to see the day — the truths would contribute to the abolition of the ancient trade system as the church, and the churches teaching, grew in prominence. God’s ways are mysterious indeed.
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Bondservants, Obey Your Earthly Masters
Before we consider Paul’s exhortation to masters, we must consider his exhortation to bondservants. If Paul’s exhortation to masters was countercultural in his day, his exhortation to bondservants is countercultural in ours.
To the salves within the church Paul wrote, “Bondservants, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a bondservant or is free.” (Ephesians 6:5–8, ESV)
Notice that Paul does not encourage bondservants to cast off the yoke of their earthy masters (as we might wish), but to obey them with fear and trembling.
Notice that he doesn’t not qualify this command saying, so long as your masters are just and kind.
And notice that what Paul says to bondservants correspond to what Paul says to others regarding submission to the authority that is over them. Children are to obey their parents in the Lord. Wives are to submit to their0 husbands as to the Lord. And it is Peter who says that they are to do this “so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives…” (1 Peter 3:1, ESV). And in another place Paul address the Christian’s submission to civil authority, and he makes no exception for rulers that are ungodly (which they certainly were in his day!). He only says, “Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God” (Romans 13:1, ESV).
The exception to rule is that when Christians are pressed to choose between obeying earthly authorities and God, they are to obey God and not man. And such would be true for bondservants as well. If pressed to obey God or their earthly masters, they must choose to obey God, no mater how severe the consequences (Lord, help those who are being pressed to make such a choice in the world today!).
But in general, Christian bondservants were commanded by the apostle to “obey [their] earthly masters with fear and trembling…”
Again, I will remind you that slavery was legal under Roman law. Bondservants played an important role in the economic system. Their work was crucial to the stability of the food chain. You may wish that Paul had encouraged disobedience and revolt, but the time was not right, nor was it Paul’s view that it was his place as an Apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ, nor did he teach that individuals should bring about change within the culture through rebellion. Furthermore, the reality is that if Paul had encouraged a slave revolt on the basis of unjust treatment he would have been sending these Christian slaves to certain death at the hands of the Romans. Instead, he urged submission to the authority that was over them, despite the imperfections.
This concept of submission to authority is sometimes difficult for modern day Americans to receive. But I will ask you to consider this: perhaps we are the ones who’s view is flawed. Perhaps the problem is with us. Perhaps we are too individualistic, too in love with our rights and freedoms. Just maybe, we need to learn how to honor the authorities that are over us, flawed as they may be, as we pray and wait patiently upon the Lord to right the wrongs that trouble us so deeply in our society. This does not mean that we must be passive. In fact, we must seek to influence the world around us for good through our patient and persistent presence as salt and light. But we must also honor the authorities that God, according to his sovereign will and infinite wisdom, has determined to set over us at this time.
As I have said, this principle of submission is constantly applied in Ephesians to wives, to children, and to bondservants. And what Paul says to bondservants is particularly instructive. Though no one here is a bondservant, all of us are under some earthly authority. And what Paul says to bondservants concerning submission to their masters may be picked up and applied by us.
First of all, Paul commands Christian bondservants to obey their earthly masters. This is simple enough. Just as a child is to obey their perents, so bondservants are to obey their masters. Though all are equal in Christ, as we will see — and though all humans are of equal worth, given that they have all been made in the image of God — the world has been designed in such a way that some have authority over others within society. Obedience is to be offered up to those who have authority.
Secondly, Paul commands Christian bondservants to obey their masters from the heart. This principle is peppered throughout verses 5-8. Bondservants are to obey with fear and trembling. They are to have a true and sincere respect for their masters. They are to not to obey “bt the way of eye-service, as people pleasers…” I think you understand what this means. They are to obey, not superficially, but sincerely from the heart. They are to serve their masters faithfully in a way that is becoming of a Christian, truly wishing to do them good and not evil. I think of the way that Joseph served in Potiphar’s house and also in the prison. He was faithful to his master (even though the circumstances that brought him to Egypt were unjust). He served his master not only when he was looking, but even when he was away. This is the way that Christian bondservant should serve — sincerely and from the heart, “reinserting service with a good will”, the text says. And this is also how children, wives, and citizens should honor the authority that is over them — with sincerity in the heart.
Thirdly, Paul commands bondservants to sincerely obey their masters as to Christ. This principle is also peppered throughout this text. And this principle is key if bondservants are to consistently serve their earthly masters, especially those who are unjust. They are to serve their earthly masters “as [they] would Christ”. They are to obey them “as bondservants of Christ”. They are to do their masters’ will because it is “the will of God”. They are to render “service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a bondservant or is free” (Ephesians 6:7–8, ESV).
This principle that we are to honor those who have authority over us as unto the Lord is what makes it possible to honor earthly and often sinful authority figures sincerely and from the heart. Friends, just as bondservants were to honor their earthly masters, so you are to honor those who have authority over you. This you are to do for Christ’s sake. This obedience is to be offered up, not to man ultimately, but to God. It may be that you are treated poorly in return, but God see both your faithful service and your unjust treatment. He will repay both.
The story of Joseph again looms large. He was faithful to God in Potiphar’s house and in the prison. He honored Potiphar and the prison guard despite the injustices. And God, in due time, did lift him up out of the pit to reward his faithfulness. Jospeh is a model for us. And in his life we see that God is sovereign even over our sufferings. He is faithful. He is able to deliver us and to reward our devotion. He rewarded Jospeh in this life. Certainly he will reward all of his servants in the life to come.
As I have said, no one here is a bondservant. And it is difficult to find a relationship that is similar to that of a bondservant to a master in our modern day, so care should be taken when seeking to apply this text to other relationships that are not the same. But there are some principles here that can be applied by wives in relation to their husbands, children in relation to their parents, members in relations to their elders, students in relation to their teachers, employees in relation to their employer, officers in relation to sergeants, and citizens in relation to police, governors and presidents. In Christ we are to “Pay to all what is owed to them: taxes to whom taxes are owed, revenue to whom revenue is owed, respect to whom respect is owed, honor to whom honor is owed.” (Romans 13:7, ESV)
Lord help us to honor those who have authority over us. Help us to do it sincerely and from the heart. Help us to submit to authority, as to Christ and for his name’s sake.
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Masters, Do The Same To Them
Finally, we come to Paul’s instructions to Christian masters. As I have said, these words would have seemed radicle in the first century Roman world. Verse 9: “Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him” (Ephesians 6:9, ESV).
No one here is a master in the sense that Paul uses the term. But anyone who has any kind of authority can learn from what Paul says to masters.
He commands masters “to do the same to them”. This is an astonishing statement — at least it would have been to his Roman audience. When Paul says, “Masters, do the same to [your servants]” clearly he does not mean that they are to offer up obedience to their servants. Instead, he means that masters are to do the will of God as it pertains to their servants. They are to serve them with the love of Christ as they honor them as fellow human beings made in the image of God. Bondservants are not to be viewed as property, but as people, and they were to respected as such.
Remember how Paul, after commandingbondservants to obey their masters also addressed their heart? Well, in the same way Paul addresses the heart of the masters when he says, “and stop your threatening”. Masters should not even have an oppressive, harsh or condescending attitude towards their servants, but should love them with the love of Christ.
And remember how Paul urged the bondservants to obey their masters as to the Lord? Well, Paul also urges masters to treat their servants as equals being mindful of God who is in heaven. They were to “do the same to them, and stop [their] threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him.”
Every human authority must wield their power with the heart of a servant, in love, being ever mindful that they themselves are under authority — the authority of God. He sees injustice, he hears the cry of the oppressed, and he will surely pour out his wrath upon the oppressor.
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Conclusion
As we come now to a conclusion, I want for you to mindful of the fact that when Paul wrote these words to masters and bondservants, he wrote them to the church in Ephesus. In that church there were both masters and bondservants united in Christ. Of course his words apply to the non-believing master and bondservant also, but they must be applied within the church. For in Christ “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for [we] are all one in Christ Jesus. And if [we] are Christ’s, then [we] are Abraham’s offspring, heirs according to promise” (Galatians 3:28–29, ESV).
The world is divided according to race, class and gender. In the world the strong oppress the weak. But in Christ we are united together as one. We are all made in God’s image, sinners saved by grace, washed in the blood of the lamb. Black and white, male and female, rich and poor, slave and free, stand equal in him.
In the church we get a foretaste of the glory of the new heavens and earth, where people will stand in perfect unity “from every tribe and language and people and nation…” In that day they will be “a kingdom and priests to our God, and they shall reign on the earth”, having been ransomed by the blood of the lamb (Revelation 5:9–10, ESV). And I am saying that in the church we get a foretaste of the unity that will exists in the new heavens and earth, for our union is rooted not in the color of our skin, nor in gender, nor in class, but ion Christ. The things that divide the world will melt away on that last day. And they must melt away even now in Christ church, which is the manifestation of the kingdom of God in this present evil age.
The world is so very divided, but in Christ there is unity and peace. Peace among men can only be accomplished through peace with God. We must first be at peace with him, through faith in the Savior he has provided. And as we come to God as the Maker of us all, and to Christ as the Savior of us all, and submit to their authority, the things that divide us within the world will melt away and seem inconsequential.
Lord, help your church. Have mercy on us Lord. May we be found as servants of Christ who love with the love of Christ no matter our station in life, all to the glory of our Savior King. Amen.
Aug 20
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WEEKLY READINGS
SUNDAY > Judg 20, Acts 24, Jer 34, Luke 3
MONDAY > Judg 21, Acts 25, Jer 35, Luke 4
TUESDAY > Ruth 1, Acts 26, Jer 36, Luke 5
WEDNESDAY > Ruth 2, Acts 27, Jer 37, Luke 6
THURSDAY > Ruth 3‐4, Acts 28, Jer 38, Luke 7
FRIDAY > 1 Sam 1, Rom 1, Jer 39, Luke 8
SATURDAY > 1 Sam 2, Rom 2, Jer 40, Luke 9
MEMORY VERSE(S)
“But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons” (Galatians 4:4–5, ESV).
CATECHISM QUESTION(S)
Baptist Catechism #31:
Q. Wherein consisteth (consists) Christ’s exaltation?
A. Christ’s exaltation consisteth (consists) in His rising again from the dead on the third day, in ascending up into heaven, in sitting at the right hand of God the Father, and in coming to judge the world at the last day.
Baptist Catechism #31:
027 – Catechesis – Baptist Catechism #31
Musical Worship:
Lord, With Glowing Heart I’d Praise Thee – LYRICS // AUDIO
Aug 20
9
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION AT HOME OR IN GOSPEL COMMUNITY GROUPS
Sermon manuscript available at emmausrbc.org
Aug 20
9
Old Testament Reading: Deuteronomy 6:1–9
“Now this is the commandment—the statutes and the rules—that the LORD your God commanded me to teach you, that you may do them in the land to which you are going over, to possess it, that you may fear the LORD your God, you and your son and your son’s son, by keeping all his statutes and his commandments, which I command you, all the days of your life, and that your days may be long. Hear therefore, O Israel, and be careful to do them, that it may go well with you, and that you may multiply greatly, as the LORD, the God of your fathers, has promised you, in a land flowing with milk and honey. Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” (Deuteronomy 6:1–9, ESV)
New Testament Reading: Ephesians 6:4
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” (Ephesians 6:4, ESV)
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[Please excuse any and all typos and misspellings within this manuscript. It has been published online for the benefit of the saints of Emmaus Reformed Baptist Church, but without the benefit of proofreading.]
Fathers
I would like to begin the sermon today by asking the question, why did Paul say, “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord”, and not fathers and mothers, or parents?
Clearly Paul is now shifting his attention to parents as he addresses each of the members of the Christian home. He has addressed husbands and wives, he has addressed children, and his commanded them to “obey [their] parents in the Lord, for this is right.” (Ephesians 6:1, ESV) And now Paul is addressing the parents. But instead of saying parents, or fathers and mothers, he says only, “fathers”.
To state the question in a different way, was it Paul’s view that only fathers have the responsibility to “bring [their children] up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord”?
Clearly, this was not Paul’s view.
The previous verses make that clear. Again, the children were commanded by Paul to obey their parents. This must mean that both father and mother have authority over the child — both are to discipline and instruct. And children are to offer up obedience to both mother and father in the Lord.
Paul then sited the fifth commandment to prove that this is right: “‘Honor your father and mother’ (this is the first commandment with a promise), ‘that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land’” (Ephesians 6:2–3, ESV). According to the law, honor is to be given to both father and mother, for both have authority over their children.
And certainly Paul agreed with the Proverbs which describe both fathers and mothers as being active in the discipline and instruction of the children. Proverbs 1:8: “Hear, my son, your father’s instruction, and forsake not your mother’s teaching, for they are a graceful garland for your head and pendants for your neck” (Proverbs 1:8–9, ESV).
Stated succinctly and bluntly, when one considers what the scriptures say in the Old and New Testaments concerning the role that mothers play in the raising up of their children, it would be absurd to interpret Paul’s mention of “fathers” only to mean that mothers have nothing to do with the “discipline and instruction” of their children.
So the question remains, why did Paul say, “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord”, and not fathers and mothers, or parents?
I think the answer is this: to emphasize the headship of the husband and father within the home.
While it is obviously true that neither fathers nor mothers should provoke their children to anger — and while it is obviously true that both fathers and mothers are to bring their children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord — a father, as head of his home, has the unique responsibility of making sure that it is so. It is the father who, as head of the home, must see to it that his children be not proveke to anger, but instead that they be brought up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. The father must engage, take the lead and oversee the raising up his children, for it is his God given responsibility.
This, I think, is the reason why Paul commands fathers specifically, and not parents in general concerning the raising up of children in the Lord. It is not to minimize the role that mothers are to play, but to highlight the headship of husbands and fathers within the home and to insist upon their responsible engagement in the task of child rearing.
I probably don’t need to tell you that this is an issue within our society. Many children are raised in homes where the father is absent. In some cases he is absent entirely. In others, he is absent partially. And in some homes the father is present physically, but is absent practically speaking, being disengaged from the children and negligent in regard to his responsibility to lead within the home. This is not the way that God designed the family to function. God’s design is that children would be born to a father and mother joined together for life in the covenant of marriage. His design is that children would be carefully raised by both mother and father, and that fathers would be faithful to lead within the home, raising their children in the nurture and addition of the Lord.
Before I go further I should say that although this is God’s design — though it is ideal that fathers be faithful to “bring [their children] up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” — one should not forget that we serve a God who uses situations that are less than ideal for the good of his people and for his glory. We serve a God who in the beginning brought order from chaos, spoke light into darkness, and brings life from death. Those who are being raised, or who were raised, in homes that fall short of this ideal should not despair, therefore. Instead they should trust in God who causes “all things [to] work together for good to those who love [him], to those who are the called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28, NKJV). Children who are being raised in a home where their father or mother is absent should not despair. It is right for them to understand that the situation is less than ideal. It is even right for them to wish that it were otherwise. In fact, the Lord may use this awareness and longing to move them to do things right when they have a family of their own someday. But one thing they must not do is despair. They must know that God is able to bring much good out of the difficult circumstances of life. Children must not despair, and neither should the mother or father who has been left to carry the burden of raising children on their own. Though the situation is not exactly the same, Pslam 68:5 applies when it says,, “Father of the fatherless and protector of widows is God in his holy habitation” (Psalm 68:5, ESV). God has a special love and concern for his people who living through challenging situations that fall short of the ideal.
With that said, I hope that all would agree that it is important for the Christian to know what the ideal is. The Christian should be eager to understand God’s design for the family so that they might live according to that design. In the family, husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church, for the husband is head of the wife just as Christ is head of the church. Wives are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord. Children are to obey their parents in the Lord, for this is right. And parents — particularly fathers — are to but bring their children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
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Do Not Provoke Your Children To Anger
But before we come to the positive command to bring children up in the Lord, we find a negative command to not provoke them to anger. Parents, and particularly fathers, are warned by the Apostle to not provoke their children to anger.
Something similar is said in that Colossians passage which mirrors the text we are now considering in Ephesians. There the Apostle says, “Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged” (Colossians 3:21, ESV).
To provoke is to stir up. Parents, and especially fathers, must take care to never stir their children up to anger.
Now, it should probably be said that a child might be angry, not because their mother or father has stirred them up, but due to the sinfulness of their own heart. Mothers and fathers are not responsible for this unrighteous anger. In fact they should warn the child against it and discipline them appropriately. Sometimes people are angry for no good reason. Perhaps they are greedy, selfish and discontent. A parent is not wrong to refuse to give in to the angry rants of a toddler, teenager, or immature adult. Paul does not say, appease the anger of your child at all costs. Instead he says, “do not provoke your children to anger.” Again, to provoke is to stir up.
So how might a parent, and particularly fathers, provoke their children to anger? The Apostle doesn’t say. He simply issues a broad command and then trusts that we will reflect upon this command to identify the specifics.
Truly, there are many ways for a father to prove a child to anger. If a father us absent, overly harsh, inconsistent, or unfair a child may be provoked to anger. If a father is overbearing, has a critical spirit, is unloving or hypocritical a child may be provoked to anger. I’m sure this list would grow very long if we were to take the time to develop it.
The child might be too young to express with words what has angered them. But children — even young children — can perceive when things are right and wrong. This is because the law of God is written on their heart as image bearers. A child can perceive injustice. A child can identify hypocrisy. A child knows the difference between constructive criticism and a critical spirit. They know the difference between punishment that is fitting, and punishment that reckless and harsh. A child knows when they are being neglected. This is true even of relatively young children, but it is especially true of older children and teenagers.
When Paul says, “Fathers, do not provoke your childen to anger”, he does not mean, fathers, don’t ever discipline your children, critique or rebuke them. He does not mean, parents, never ask your children to do something that they don’t want to do. Your child might grow angry when you say “no” to ice cream. They might grow angry when you assign chores. But this is not the fault of the parent, provided that chores are reasonable chores, and that the dispostion of the parent is loving when the answer “no” is delivered.
Parents, we need to reflect carefully upon the command of the Apostle here. His instructions to parents are very, very brief — only one sentence, in fact! And yet he takes the time to warn parents, and especially fathers, against provoking their children to anger. It must be that the Apostle saw this as a common problem.
So I ask you, parents — fathers — do you provoke your children to anger? Do you stir them up by your absence, your lack of love, and by failing to affirm them? Do you frustrate them with unrealistic expectations and by your hypocrisy? Do you discourage them by being harsh and overly critical? What Paul said to all Christians back in Ephesians 4:29 is to be applied by parents as they relate to their own children: “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” (Ephesians 4:29, ESV)
To state it differently, there is a sense in which parents must honor their children and treat them with respect as their exercise their authority over them. The fact that parents have authority over their children must not be ignored. Parents, and particularly fathers, must not neglect their responsibility, therefore. But children are to be honored as human beings, for they too bear the image of God.
Notice that this is how the Apostle addresses husbands who have authority over their wives. They must not be harsh with them, but are to love them as Christ loved the church, being ever mindful of the fact that they are one with them, and co-heirs in Christ Jesus. And earthly masters are exhorted to in the next passage to honor their servants, to stop their threatening, “knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him” (Ephesians 6:9, ESV). So in Christ those with authority are to honor those who are in submission to them. They are to wield their authority with the heart of a servant. And this applies to parents too. You are authority is real. You must be faithful to fulfill your God given responsibility to raise your children. But they are to honored as they live in subjection to you, for they God is their Maker and yours. They too bear his image.
Parents, mimic God the Father in you parenting. Be kind, consistent, fair and just.
Parents, treat your children in the way that yourself would want to be treated. I’m sure that you want those to who have authority over you to treat you fairly and with respect. Do the same unto them.
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But Bring Them Up In The Discipline And Instruction Of The Lord
After the negative command, we find a positive command: “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”
The Greek word translated as “bring them up” carries with it the idea of nourishing something. In fact, the word appears only one other time in the New Testament, and that is in Ephesians 5:29 where Paul urges husbands to love their wives on the basis of their one flesh union with them, saying, “For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church” (Ephesians 5:29, ESV). So husbands are to nourish and cherish their wives. And as fathers they are to have the same disposition towards their children. Husbands and fathers are to look upon their wives and children and they are to see them as precious, they are to be mindful of the responsibility and privilege that they have to nourish them — to see to it that they are protected, provided for, and encouraged in the Lord. Brothers, it is a high calling.
Notice that the command to “bring them up” or to “nourish” stand in contrast to the command to not provoke to anger. A father who proves to anger is harsh, condescending, lacking in love, and negligent. In contrast to this, fathers are to bring their children up. They are build them up, and not tear them down. And this they are to do through discipline and instruction.
The word translated as discipline means to train or to reprove. The Greek term was used frequently in the Greco-Roman world to refer to the education of children in a wide rage of subjects and disciplines. Parents, and particularly fathers, are responsible to train their children to live well in this world. Now granted, a father may delegate some of these things to his wife or to tutors, but he must be engaged — he must see to it that his children are taught how to work, how to manage money, how to tend to the responsibilities of life. They should be taught how to read and write. They should be taught personal higine. This list would grow very long if we were to develop it. The point is that parents are to discipline their children, not out of anger, not punitively (because you have been somehow inconvenienced), but always to build them up into independent, good and productive members of society. We are to remember that this is the purpose of discipline: not to make the child pay, but to train them up! We are to train them up so that we might, in due time, send them out to establish households of their own where they will do the same thing for their children.
The word translated as “instruction” means to teach. In the scriptures this word is often used to refer to religious instruction — instruction concerning God, his ways and a life that is lived according to wisdom. Parents, and particularly fathers, must be diligent to bring their children up in the “discipline and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4, ESV).
Parents, how are you doing in this regard? Are you disciplining your children so that they have the skills that they need to live a good life in this world. Are you preparing them for adulthood? And more than this, are preparing them to live for God in this world by instructing them in the Lord?
Are you teaching them the Gospel?
Are you teaching them to receive with meekness the word of God?
Are you teaching them about who God is?
Are you teaching them about who we are, and what our purpose is?
Do they know about sin and its consequences?
Do they know that God has been gracious to provide a Redeemer?
Do they know who he is?
Do they know what he has done to accomplish our salvation?
Do they know how we come to benefit from the salvation that he has earned?
Do they know God’s law?
Do they understand that we have broken it?
Did they know what faith is?
Do they know what repentance is?
Do they understand how it is that God nourishes those who are is?
Do they know how to pray?
Fathers and mothers, we must teach these things to our children.
And how should we teach them?
By including them in the assembly of the church to hear the word of God preached.
Through systematic instruction, commonly called catechesis.
Through casual and spontaneous instruction.
Perhaps you noticed that the Deuteronomy 6 passage that we read at the start of this sermon seems to encourage instruction that is both structured and systematic and also casual and spontaneous. Concerning the law, God spoke to Israel saying, “And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”
And lastly, by example. Your children need to see you but the faith that you profess into practice, friends. Perhaps nothing is more frustrating to a child that hypocrisy.
We are all stumble in many ways, friends. Even the best of parents are not perfect parents. One of the most important things for a Christian parent to do is to repent before God, and even before their children, when they sin. Fathers, if you are harsh to your children— if you have provoked them to anger because of your critical spirit or your unjust treatment of them — the very best thing that you can do is repent. Repent before God, and even be willing to ask your children to forgive you for the wrong does to them. I have had to do this many times. Sin is to avoided at all costs, but it is also inevitable. May the Lord grant us humility so that we might repent truly before God and man.
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Conclusion
Let me conclude with this simple but very important observation. In each and every one of these relationships involving authority and submission, something of God’s relationship to his people is put on display. Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church. Wives are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord. Masters (as will see) are to honor their servants, being mindful that God is the Matter of them both. And bondservants are to “obey [their] earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as [they] would Christ” (Ephesians 6:5, ESV). Both in our positions of authority and submission we are to give glory to God, therefore. We are to submit as unto him, and we are to lead being imitators of him, that is to say, in love.
This principle has already been established by the Apostle in this epistle, and it is to be applied here in each of these relationships: “Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” (Ephesians 5:1–2, ESV)
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WEEKLY READINGS
SUNDAY > Judg 20, Acts 24, Jer 34, Luke 3
MONDAY > Judg 21, Acts 25, Jer 35, Luke 4
TUESDAY > Ruth 1, Acts 26, Jer 36, Luke 5
WEDNESDAY > Ruth 2, Acts 27, Jer 37, Luke 6
THURSDAY > Ruth 3‐4, Acts 28, Jer 38, Luke 7
FRIDAY > 1 Sam 1, Rom 1, Jer 39, Luke 8
SATURDAY > 1 Sam 2, Rom 2, Jer 40, Luke 9
MEMORY VERSE(S)
“But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons” (Galatians 4:4–5, ESV).
CATECHISM QUESTION(S)
Baptist Catechism #31:
Q. Wherein consisteth (consists) Christ’s exaltation?
A. Christ’s exaltation consisteth (consists) in His rising again from the dead on the third day, in ascending up into heaven, in sitting at the right hand of God the Father, and in coming to judge the world at the last day.
Baptist Catechism #31:
027 – Catechesis – Baptist Catechism #31
Musical Worship:
Lord, With Glowing Heart I’d Praise Thee – LYRICS // AUDIO
Aug 20
2
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION AT HOME OR IN GOSPEL COMMUNITY GROUPS
Sermon manuscript available at emmausrbc.org